When you have to fly for 32 hours…
Posted on June 8, 2023
And can’t sleep. I discovered that traveling to Australia takes a long long time. Traveling there was longer than traveling back due to layovers and flight delays. Our first flight was 2 hours, Florida to Atlanta. Then we had a 4 hour layover. Then from Atlanta to Los Angeles was a four hour flight with a 6 hour layover. The flight from LA to Sydney, Australia was 15 hours. However, we were excited. This was our first trip to Australia and we were packing in a lot during the 12 days we would be there.
We flew Delta for most of our trip and the flight was reasonable for most of the legs, except the dinner one evening was chicken and green stuff and I have to say the green stuff was just awful and on another flight I could not cut the broccoli with the flimsy wooden knife. I gave up.
Richard was smart and he booked his seat as the window seat. That meant he got to see all the taking off and landing. However, he had to use my phone on occasions and I managed to grab the window seat on a couple of flights.
So what do you do when you can’t sleep, I watched movies. 16 of them in total over 6 flights. Here is a run down of my movie choices.

Flying to Sydney I watched the following:
A Man called Otto
I loved this movie. There is so much going on. It deals with the reality of losses in life, family, when an older person (Tom Hanks) gets laid off from their job, loneliness happens, age related issues such as grumpiness, negative thoughts and attempts of wanting to end his life. But there is the flip side of relating to an energetic, lively family that takes over his life. Warning though if suicide is a trigger this may not be for you. If you don’t want to cry on a plane, don’t watch it. That aside I highly recommend this movie.

Maybe I do
The kids finally decide to get married and invite the parents (Richard Gere, Susan Sarandon, Diane Keaton, William Macy) to meet each other. It turns out the parents probably know each other better than the children ever thought they did. Good light hearted movie to watch after the previous movie.

City of Enlightenment
Set in the 60’s or 70’s somewhere in the UK, it deals with an older woman’s relationship with a young man, all set in the surroundings of a movie theater and it’s happenings.

The Big Chill
I have seen The Big Chill before. However, this is an ageless movie and reminds me of the angst of the 80’s. Superb cast, interesting plot. A once close group of friends (JoBeth Williams, Glenn Close, Kevin Kline, William Hurt, Tom Berenger) come together for the funeral of their friend Alex. Definitely a movie worth watching again.

Primal Fear
I love Richard Gere, (who doesn’t), but Edward Norton is excellent in his role. This movie is about a defense attorney who takes a job to defend an alter boy accused of murdering the archbishop of Chicago. Dark secrets emerge and what seems like a straightforward case becomes a story with a very interesting twist.
I would definitely recommend watching the movie.

Press Play
After the seriousness of Primal Fear I really wanted to watch something light hearted. Press Play was that and more. It is the story of a love lost and the only way she can reconnect with the lost love is by pressing play on a cassette that he had made for her before he died. They find that in doing so they are able to change history a bit but not enough. The cassette is running out of songs. This movie did bring about a few tears.

Cabaret
I have watched this before but once again, Cabaret is a movie that speaks to the soul. It is about a cabaret singer who meets a British academic during the rise of the Nazi party and the collapse of the Weimar Republic. This also explores the decadence of the times, the debauchery of the small time cabaret theaters and the dehumanization of the man during this dark period. This is probably one of the best musicals I have watched. Lisa Minelli plays the role of the cabaret dancer. Added to all of that the British academic is a very young Michael York, who was probably my first movie crush back in the 70’s. Definitely worth watching this timeless movie.
Entrance into Australia was very smooth once we figured out what we were supposed to do. Stand in line, scan your passport, answer some questions and get a ticket. From there you take the ticket to the gate and it gives you access through to your luggage. Except mine did not work. So I had to go via the counter and they kept my card which gave me a panic attack when I had to declare what I was bringing in. Australia is pretty strict with what you can take in and it is good to have a doctors prescription for medications, which I did but they ask for it. No woods, no fruits, now plants, not meats and a long list of other things. If you are flying into Australia do yourself a favor and go to the Australian gov website and know what you can and cannot take in.
2,5 days later and we were heading to Melbourne. We flew Qantas internally from Sydney to Melbourne and back and they are impressive. Not only do they board front and back by within 27 minutes they had landed, disembarked, cleaned the plane, loaded the luggage, got everyone seated and were back in the air. In addition they gave us sandwiches and a can of coke zero for the internal flight. I have to say I was impressed.

Acquaman
I have to confess I am not a Jason Momoa fan, in the sense that everyone raves about him. I just don’t get it. I watched Aquaman, because I was running out of choices and wanted to see what all the fuss was about. I like movies with some kind of sci-fi, but this was not my movie. It had all the right moves, but it really did not move me. That is not to say you will not love the movie.

Movies watched on the flight home:

M3gan
M3gan is a very interesting movie on a very hot topic right now: AI. I think we all know how rapidly AI is developing and the scary side of what AI can potentially do. M3gan shows the scary side of a doll created to meet the needs of lonely children. The AI is constantly absorbing, recognizing and containing information on situations until she becomes the controller instead of being controlled. Well worth watching.

Dark Waters
Dark Waters was a court room drama, slow when it started but quickly drew me in to the horrors of POFA and the dangers of Teflon in our society. The movie deals with a dark secret that connects to one of the worlds largest corporations, Du Pont. What I did not know was that this court case ran from around 2006 to 2015 and in the end Du Pont and Chemours agreed to pay $671 million to settle a lawsuit brought about by around 3550 people who accused them of contaminating the local water supply with PFOA or C-8 as it is also know. PFAS are used in a wide range of consumer products including non stick pans which we would innocently use to cook with each day. According to the movie PFAS have now been found in the blood or people and wildlife world wide and that 99% of humans are affected by PFAS. This definitely gives one something to think about and I for one am relooking the concept of non stick products. When you think about it most things we use to cook with are non stick. According to an article I read PFAS can be found in cosmetics, furniture and food packaging as well. An older looking movie, definitely one that it thought provoking and if you have not watched it, I would highly recommend it. (Mark Ruffalo, Anne Hathaway, Tim Robbins, Bill Pullman are just some of the cast).

Don’t worry Darling
An interesting move, that made me think of the movie The Truman Show. Set in the 50’s you are exposed to the perfect community, living in perfect houses, where the woman stay home and clean, and the men all drive to work in their perfect cars. But cracks set in and what seems perfect is not so perfect after all. There is a very interesting and manipulative twist in this movie, and I would recommend you watching it. Cast is made up of Harry Styles, Florence Pugh, Olivia Wilde, Chris Pine, Gemma Chan and various others)

Her
Another operating system movie, with Joaquin Phoenix in the lead role. Lost after his divorce he starts to communicate with a operating system. This is a sensitive movie dealing with loneliness, isolation and the need to mean something to someone. If I recall correctly there was some nudity, which probably wasn’t the best of a plane situation but hey, I am not looking behind me to see who is watching me. I did catch a guy watching me get annoyed with my piece of broccoli that I could not cut with a flimsy wooden knife, so he may have watched my movie choices as well. Definitely worth watching.

Infinite Storm
I was looking for a change of pace and thought this movie may do it for me. Set on Mt Washington, an experienced hiker (Noami Watts) comes across a stranded man (Billy Howle) who is not dressed for hiking. The movie is about getting him back to ground level and the meeting up afterwards. This is based on a true story. If you enjoy battling the elements and a bit of a tear jerker ending you will enjoy this movie.

Victoria and Abdul
I really wanted to see this movie when it came out but never got to the theaters to see it. What a delightful heartwarming story of the relationship between Queen Victoria (Judi Dench) and an unknown man from India named Abdul (Ali Fazal). You have the lonely, overweight, ready to die queen and this young inexperienced, naïve young man. In addition you have the young man’s cohort (Adeel Akhtar) that travels to England with him that just adds the light hearted comedy and quips to the scene that have you chuckling. It also deals with the class difference found in the days of Queen Victoria and how it plays out when she dies. Definitely a movie to watch.

What’s eating Gilbert Grape
I chose this movie because who doesn’t like Johnny Depp. A small town movie with a lot of angst, worry and responsibility. His mother is obesely overweight. He also has a mentally impaired younger brother Annie. Kuddos to Leonardo Di Caprio for playing the role of Arnie. His role was tough and he played that part so incredibly well. Glibert (Johnny Depp) is also dealing with 2 sisters, an older cougar type woman who is bored with her older husband, and a young woman who accidently lands up in the town and forms a friendship with Gilbert. This is a very heart warming movie, dealing with real issues. Definitely recommend it if you have not seen it.

Alone together
Alone together was another lighthearted movie, with a good end. Set during Covid, this man (Jim Sturgess) and woman (Katie Holmes) find themselves renting the same house. During that stay they get emotionally involved, and then her (somewhat) ex (Derek Luke) arrives at the house to discover her staying with someone else. It was enjoyable to watch and if you are looking for some lighthearted romance, this would make a good choice. (I have to confess that I did fall asleep during this movie, not the movies fault though, and missed the snack cart that went passed. After 25 hours of flying I was hungry. Fortunately we had a delay in Atlanta so we were able to grab a meal).

Erin Brockovich
Another classic movie based on a true story of a paralegal consumer advocate, and environmental activist who was instrumental in building a case against Pacific Gas $ Electric Company. This involved the contamination of groundwater in Hinkley, California. I have to say that Julia Roberts pulled her role off in this movie. She was convincing and I thoroughly enjoyed the role she portrayed. Playing Erin Brockovich, she comes across some medical records in a real estate file. From there the movie progresses to the point of discovering a cover-up involving contaminated water. This water is causing residents to show signs of devastating illnesses. I love it when the small person is willing to take on the giant and then to win is just the sugar on the top. Much like Dark Waters it concerns me how much these big corporations are willing to hide from the public and how much they get away with. Flint (2017) is another example of toxic water crisis in Michigan If you haven’t watched it, then do so, these stories do not go away, they just keep happening in different forms.

So those were my movie choices for our 32 hour flight going to and from Sydney. If you are booking tickets, remember that you loose time traveling from the US to Australia. We left on a Monday and arrived Wednesday morning. Flying back to the US was about 30 hours due to shorter layovers, but the weird thing is that you do it all in one day. We left the hotel at 6am in the morning and arrived home at 10pm that evening.
Jet lag is the pits. Going there we were ready for bed at 5pm and after 2 weeks I was just getting to the point of sleeping at 10pm (still 2 hours earlier than my normal midnight). Coming home, I found I could not sleep. I was wide awake at 3am on Tuesday evening. Saturday (today) I crashed and slept from midnight until 2pm. Hopefully I can sleep tonight. I guess I really needed it.
When I got home the first thing I did was go to switch my computer on so that I could download my 2500 images. The computer would not boot up. Ugh ugh Ugh…. So as soon as my computer gets back to working again, I will be able to start editing my Australia images and share some of the most beautiful scenes I have seen in ages. Definitely different to living in Florida.
Stay well… more on Australia to come.
Another blue hour ending: May 2023
Posted on May 11, 2023
When you read this, I will be walking the streets of Sydney, Australia. A little bit of history, both my fathers parents were Australian born, but both families emigrated to South Africa where my grandmother and grandfather met, married and created their own family. I will not get to where my grandmother was born but I am hoping that I will be able to walk the streets of my grandfather’s birth town.
However, that is not why we are traveling there. In 2020 Richard developed a melanoma, and for the last 2.5 years he has been on immunotherapy. For a while we did not know which way it would go, but as of the last scan things looked good. But it reminded us that he has not seen his family for a good 10 years, and have not seen our nieces for over 23 years. Our nieces have their own families now. Most of all Richard will get to see his mom whom he has not seen for way to many years.
Ironically, his entire family emigrated to Australia, and mine left Australia.
While we are gone I thought I would share another beautiful sunset in the good old Florida, USA. I love silhouettes and on this particular night I managed to get a few.









I loved watching the sun go down, and last of all the blue hour after the sun sets.

I hope you are all having a fantastic day. Think of me, I already picture sore feet. We are going to be walking a lot. I have plotted out a map of Sydney and I cannot wait to see it. In addition, we plan to walk from Bondi Beach to Bronte, and on a different day catch a ferry to Manly. I also get to meet up with a cousin on my dad’s side of the family in Sydney and hopefully Melbourne and meet up with a childhood friend who will fly in from Brisbane. I joked that it seems crazy that we both have to go halfway around the world to meet up again. That is the scatterings of Africa. We are all over the world.
In addition to spending time with family in Melbourne, we will be doing the Great Ocean Road, as a 3 day road trip. I cannot wait to -Port Campbell and see the incredible rock formation. The challenge here will be that Richard hates cities and I love to walk through them and see all the architecture and beautiful buildings. He wants to walk to waterfalls. I’m not saying I don’t like that but I do want a balance of city and surroundings.
Until next time, stay well
Blue Hour: April 2023
Posted on May 1, 2023
It’s another week and another project. This week’s theme was Blue Hour. That is the period just before the sunrises or just after the sun sets. I had a couple of Saturday night but they did not count because they were in the wrong week. So it was back to Loxahatchee National Park on Tuesday evening to see what I could come up with.
Love watching the sun set on the day. It feels like an achievement of sorts. I have survived the day, and survived another day to put it honestly. I am always so conscious that time is limited now. I am at the age where things start to go wrong. I remember growing up and the folks would meet up with friends, and the conversation would be “do you remember so and so…, yes… , well they are dead”. Yikes. I have reached that age. So it is good to get out and celebrate each day.





Finally the blue hour arrived, and I got the image below. I had hoped for more clouds but it is what it is. I definitely got the blue.

As I was walking away down the embankment to the car, I turned around to see what was behind me and spotted this silhouette. I think this may be my blue hour image that I will submit.

Nature is a great place to get out and appreciate the beauty of this world. When the day is tough and the troubles are huge, find somewhere where you can just walk and appreciate the beauty around you. That is what I like to do.
Look out for more sunsets, more Macedonia pics, and Whoo Hoo, in a few days I am heading to Australia for 2 weeks. I know, I know 2 weeks is not enough, but it is all I could convince the other half into taking. Stay well until next time.
30 Minutes In The Life: April 2023
Posted on April 24, 2023
This has been an interesting week. It has been a time of reflection. Two close friends brothers died this past week. A dear friend from one of my study groups lost her husband this week as well. It makes me so grateful to know that I am still alive to see the sun come up and go down each day. I am especially grateful now that we have a toddler in our lives. Luka is our grandson, and I pray that we are around to see a lot more sunrises and sunsets so that we can immerse ourselves in his little life. Time flies and before we know it, he will be a teenager. My friends grandson turned 9 yesterday and it feels like he was a toddler just the other day.
So Saturday I needed to get some sunsets for a project I was working on. (look for it at the end). However, Luka was having a sleepover and so I asked Richard to come along with me so that he could watch him while I photographed the sunset. He ran all over the place and was a sweaty child by the time we left. We had to have another bath when we got home.
It was good to see them both out and about. As I talk about gratitude. I am so grateful that Richard has recovered so well from his melanoma scare. Two and a half years of immunotherapy and he is doing well. I am so glad he is around to pour into this little guys life. Oh I know the picture is not perfect but it is hard to catch a moving child in the dark when your settings are on the sunset.

That said I was there to catch the sunset. I needed to get my creative project done by midnight Sunday. The theme for the project was Dreamscapes and I had to use images taken during the week. Dreamscapes is not my idea of an easy task. I managed to capture Luka sleeping on Friday, and then I combined the image with two of these sunset images. Pulled birds from another image, and threw in a moon just to finish it off. More about that later in the blog.
The sunset was stunning and there was enough cloud to make it more interesting.






The theme Dreamscape was a challenge for me. As I mentioned there are a number of layers to the composite. First I create the swirls using three different sunset images and manipulating them in photoshop. Then I added Luka sleeping. After that I added the birds and cleaned up around each one of them. Lastly I added the moon.
I tried to create a composite of light and dark with the purple reflecting the rem stage. The moon is still out but the orange of the sun is starting to come out and the dark is starting to fade. That twilight zone. Quite often Luka will laugh while he is asleep or smile. I often wonder what he is thinking about.

Going back to my opening paragraph. We are not guaranteed to see the sun come up or the sun set. If you have not told your loved ones that you love them, now (sooner rather than later) is the time to do so.
30 Minutes in the Life is a small group of bloggers who get together once a month to put thought to paper and share on the happenings of their lives. Take some time to follow the link to see what my friend and very talented photographer Lupji of Lupji Photography has to share.
30 Minutes in the Life: March 2023
Posted on March 27, 2023
Walking in the wetlands is always one of my happy moments and today is no different from any of the other time. I love the peace and tranquility of my walk, despite the speed walkers and the camera groups and sometimes the crowds. I tend to switch off and focus on why I am there.
Getting out clears the cobwebs, opens my eyes, helps me to appreciate that there is more to life than me. There is beauty that surrounds me and it is a joy to see.

The simplicity of a leaf on a railing makes me smile. This is one of go to styles of photography. I love the creaminess of the image. Today I did not get to see too many brightly colored leaves, given that we are coming out of winter, but sometimes that is okay because it is real.

A Little Blue Heron who was confident enough to allow me to get closer to it than it may have liked. I love the feather action in the wind.

Fir fronds lying on the railing still give a very winterish feeling.

I may be wrong but this bird does not look like a Grackle, rather it looks distinctly like an Indian Myna. How do I know that, I grew up with Indian Myna by the boatloads. Grackles are common in Florida. Indian Myna are common in South Africa.

Sometimes its the random things that catch my attention. This case it is a random spider web of leaves and bits and pieces hanging by a thread attached to something my eye does not capture.

A Yellow Rumped Warbler flittered around my view. I don’t capture these little birds too often so I was grateful to see it settle for a few minutes before taking off again. It was long enough for me to capture the pose.


One of my favorite birds is this Little Green Heron. Green you may ask? Absolutely that is it’s name but I am with you because I have yet to see green in it’s coloring. That said, this little bird is a wader and can hold this pose for the longest time as it watches for it’s food.

I was doing my best to get down and low with this little Palm Warbler when someone, something not sure which triggered flight mode. I caught it just as it was about to take off.

The Palm Warbler above is the same one in this picture. It flew into the trees and hopped from branch to branch and it took me a good deal of patience to be able to capture this image. I love the image but I am not crazy about the big yellow blob which is a leaf.

Further around on my walk I came across this colorful leaf. I could not resist taking it’s picture. I always laugh when people see me taking a photograph and then remark “Oh it’s a leaf”. Come on, this is not just a leaf. This is beauty in creation and they just don’t see it.

As I have mentioned Iguana are my friends. I love them. I love their make up. I love their coloring. I love their attitude when you get to close and it flaps it’s neck skin to let you know that it is not happy. They are prehistoric looking and so darn cool. But that is me. Iguana are not popular in Florida. Iguana do not do well over the winter season. On cold days their body temperature can go to frozen mode and they go stiff and fall out of trees. Some to the ground and unfortunately some into water, where they will drown. Those on the ground tend to thaw out as the temperature warms up and then they carry on with life.

The Grebe is super sensitive to people around. For me, getting a photo of this little bird is an achievement. They are super fast, and spend a fair bit of time underwater and will come up so far away from where you expect them to be. This little one had been bathing and so I was able to snap it before it ducked away again.

I happened to find another Palm Warbler in one of the random trees along the walk way.

As I arrived at a water hole, I was surprised to see a host of Glossy Ibis and a couple of Great Egret. The day was cool and this Great Egret looked like it was cold to be honest.

Glossy Ibis are either boring looking or look stunning. When the sun shines on their wings it changes the whole look of the bird completely. They go from a boring looking brown to the pearly colored wing that changes color dependent on the angle it catches the wings.

Talking wings, doesn’t that wing span and it’s intricate formation just amaze you. I am always in awe of nature and it’s creation. Each feather is exactly in the right place so that when they come to fly there is no question that they are going to take off.
Nature is a great place to get out and appreciate the beauty of this world. When the day is tough and the troubles are huge, find somewhere where you can just walk and appreciate the beauty around you. That is what I like to do.
30 Minutes in the Life is a small group of bloggers who get together once a month to put thought to paper and share on the happenings of their lives. Take some time to follow the link to see what my friend and very talented photographer Lupji of Lupji Photography has to share.
30 Minutes in the Life” February 2023: Tikves Winery
Posted on February 27, 2023
I decided to go back to Macedonia for my 30 Minutes in the Life. I have neglected editing my images. Today’s trip is to Tikves Winery in Macedonia. It was part of our drive down to Okrid. If I recall correctly our trip was about 3 hours of driving time to reach Okrid. Like we do here in the USA, we love to visit wineries. It is fun to see what they look like and to stop and have some food to eat and taste some of wine that has been made there.
Tikves winery dates back to 1885 and a long tradition of wine making. Hot summers and cold winters are the perfect climate for the growing of the grapes, and Macedonia definitely fits into those categories. One of the days was 105 F and I know that in winter it gets super cold.
The first few pics are of our drive to the winery. The countryside really reminds me of the Midlands of South Africa. Lush and green and endless.





Tikves was set in a small town about the 3rd of a way through our trip and if I remember correctly a good portion of the inhabitants of the town worked at the winery. Daniel had booked a tour and we were given access to the winery where we parked and waited for our tour guide. Our tour guide only spoke Macedonian and so we had to rely on Daniel to translate, and he was not the best translator lol. He chatted with the tour operator and forgot to tell us what had been said. First we would walk the outside of the premises. While it may look big it really only took us about 10 minutes to visit the outside. Of course, I was always dragging behind everyone because there is so much to see.









And then we were heading inside the building and down underground. The air was cool inside. I was impressed with all the vats near that restaurant, that have the wine pumped into them. It is quite a process.





The tour through the underground area was fairly quick. It is not a huge winery, but it was very interesting. Last stop was the restaurant. Through the doors below we entered a double story restaurant area. We were the only guests at the time. We selected to have some salads, cheese and meat dishes along with a white and a red wine. One thing about Macedonia is that they have only two types of cheese as far as I could tell. A salty feta type cheese, or a soft gouda type cheese.
Oh and I fell in love with the stained glass windows.









It was a nice stop over in our trip. Back in the car we are now on the the road to Okrid, where we will spend 3 days at the Lake and touring the area. Look out for more blogs on Macedonia coming up.
30 Minutes in the Life is a small group of bloggers who get together once a month to put thought to paper and share on the happenings of their lives. Hopefully soon I will get back to rest of the Macedonia images, but in the meantime, take some time to follow the link to see what my friend and very talented photographer Lupji of Lupji Photography has to share this month.
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